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Emotional intelligence matters, and not just on a personal level. Research shows developing greater emotional intelligence can lead to higher performance and pay, as well as better professional and personal relationships. The better you can understand and manage your emotions, and the emotions of people around you, the greater your chances of success. So how emotionally intelligent are you? You could take an emotional intelligence test. Or you could just see how you answer the following questions. Do I ask for advice instead of feedback? Say youre okay with getting feedback, even when its critical. (Plenty of people who claim they do, really dont.) You may even enjoy getting critical feedback. But that doesnt mean other people like to give you the feedback you need. Research shows when feedback is requested rather than volunteered, it tends to be too vague. Too fluffy. Too, I dont want to hurt your feelings so Ill just be nice, to be of any real value. But when you ask for advice? Harvard Business School researchers found that compared to asking for feedback, asking for advice resulted in respondents providing 34% more areas of improvement, and 56% more ways to improve. In short, emotionally intelligent people realize that asking another person to provide feedback (saying, How did I do?) puts them on the spot. On the other hand, asking another person for advice (saying, What can (or should) I do?) is flattering. Asking someone for advice implicitly shows you respect their knowledge, skills, experience, etc. Do that, and two great things happen: you get the input you need, and they feel valued, trusted, and happy to offer guidance they know will help you. Win-win. Do I appreciate (even if I dont like) negative feedback? But what if youre given feedback you didnt request? Thats the farthest thing from fun. No one likes to be told what they can do better. Research shows most people rarely appreciate feedback when its negative. And when they do receive constructive criticism, they rarely use it to improve their performance. (In fact, studies show that within days we tend to totally forget the negative feedback we receive.) Emotionally intelligent people keep their feelings in check and embraceor at least put asidethe discomfort to find ways to improve. A study published in the Journal of Experimental Psychology: Learning found that were far more likely to recall evaluative feedback (feedback about something weve already completed) than directive feedback (feedback on how we could improve on a future task.) Thats why emotionally intelligent people embraceagain, even if they dont enjoycritical feedback. They focus on what it says about the task, not about themselves. Instead of avoiding feedback that threatens how you currently perceive yourself, use it to improve how you will someday perceive yourself. Smarter, more skilled, more talented, more inclusive . . . more of whatever you someday hope to be. Do I often praise other people? Do you feel you dont receive enough recognition and praise? Science says youre not alone. Two out of three employees surveyed feel they dont receive enough praise, and nearly three-fourths say they receive some form of positive feedback less than once a week. Clearly that doesnt feel great. Emotionally intelligent people recognize that what they wantor needis what they can give to people they know. A kind word. A sincere thank-you. Plenty of people you knowemployees, vendors, customers, friends, family, etc.deserve a kind word. A sincere thank-you. But you should also recognize people you dont know. A store clerk. A delivery person. A customer service rep. Because praise that is unexpected, like the gift that is given just because, is often even more powerful. Do I willingly admit my mistakes? As Daniel Coyle writes in his book The Culture Code, Navy SEAL Dave Cooper feels the most important words a leader can say are, I screwed that up. While that might sound odd, since conventional wisdom says leaders should project unshakable confidence, and admitting weakness risks creating more weakness, emotionally intelligent people realize strong cultures can only be built when people feel safe enough to tell one another the truth. Which starts with leaders who admit they arent perfect. The result is a vulnerability loop: one person allows themself to be vulnerable and admits a mistake or a shortcoming, which allows another person to do the same. In time, that leads to more open exchanges that build trust and drive performance. It helps people focus on how they can get better, together. Do I often skip past the small talk? Say youre at a conference and just meet someone new. Do you whip out the small talk? Science says you shouldnt. A series of studies published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that the more awkward and uncomfortable a conversation with another person sounded, the more they tended to bond with the other person, and the more they liked the other person. Participants felt less awkward, more connected, and a lot happir after those conversations than they expected to feel. Emotionally intelligent people realize that the deeper the conversation, especially with someone they dont know, the more likely they both are to enjoy it. Keep in mind, deep doesnt have to be too deep. When researchers asked people to come up with what they considered to be deeper questions, the most common were pretty straightforward: What do you love doing? What do you regret most? Where do you see yourself in five years? As the researchers write, Our research suggests that the person next to you would probably be happier talking about their passions and purpose than the weather or Whats up?’ And so do you.
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Investors in Bitcoin are waking up to another bad morning for the worlds preeminent cryptocurrency. As of the time of this writing, the price of one token is down 6.55% in the last 24 hours to just above $95,000 per coin. It’s a low that Bitcoin has not seen since May. Todays sell-off continues a monthlong trend in which Bitcoin has now lost about 20% of its value. But whats driving this most recent sell-offs? Two culprits are most likely at play. Uncertainty of Fed rate cuts Next month, the Federal Reserve is expected to announce a decision on whether it will change interest rates. The Fed has three options: increase rates, hold rates at current levels, or cut (decrease) rates. Until recently, Wall Street was pretty bullish about the likelihood that the Fed would cut rates in December. When the Fed cuts rates, it’s generally seen as beneficial because rate cuts boost liquidity in markets. Increased liquidity generally prompts investors to allocate more to risk assets. Risk assets include assets like cryptocurrencies and highly volatile stocks (such as AI-adjacent stocks lately). So a Fed rate cut in December would boost liquidity, likely driving investors toward risk assets, including cryptocurrencies such as Bitcoin, which would likely rise in price. But now, as NBC News notes, in recent days, traders think there is only around a 50% chance that the Fed will cut rates in December. At the beginning of November, the majority of traders thought there was a 90% chance the Fed would do so. This uncertainty over whether the Fed will cut rates in December is likely one of the biggest factors behind Bitcoins fall today. Selloff of tech and crypto stocks Bitcoin is generally seen as a risk asset since its price is highly volatile compared to more traditionally stable assets like bonds. But Bitcoin isnt the only risk asset. Many tech stocks are seen as risk assetsparticularly ones operating in the AI spacebecause their prices can swing so widely as of late. And as of the past day, those risky tech assets have been plummeting. Yesterday alone, the prices of some major tech and AI-adjacent stocks dropped significantly due to both uncertainty about Fed rate cuts and growing fears of an AI bubble. Those drops yesterday included: Palantir Technologies Inc. (Nasdaq: PLTR): down 6.53% Intel Corporation (Nasdaq: INTC): down 5.23% Nvidia Corporation (Nasdaq: NVDA): down 3.58% Tesla, Inc. (Nasdaq: TSLA): down 6.64% Amazon.com, Inc. (Nasdaq: AMZN): down 2.71% Alphabet Inc. (Nasdaq: GOOG): down 2.89% Meanwhile, those traditional tech stocks werent the only ones getting hit hard yesterday. As noted by CoinCentral, crypto stocks in the mining and trading space also had a pretty bad day, including: Bitfarms Ltd. (Nasdaq: BITF): down 17.98% Bitdeer Technologies Group (Nasdaq: BTDR): down 20.3% Coinbase Global, Inc. (Nasdaq: COIN): down 6.86% Gemini Space Station, Inc. (Nasdaq: GEMI): down 9.78% Bullish (NYSE: BLSH): down 9.85% When investors see risk asset stocks declining sharplyparticularly ones operating in the crypto spaceit may drive an outflow of investment in cryptocurrencies themselves as they seek safer and more stable investment assets to park their money in. Bitcoin has had a chaotic 2025 Being an investor in Bitcoin has certainly had its highs and lows this year. The token began trading just above $94,000 per coin just after the new year. It got a crypto-friendly Trump administration boost around the time of President Trumps inauguration later that month. But after trading above six figures for the first few months of the year, Bitcoin took a hit, along with most of the stock market, thanks to President Trumps Liberation Day tariffs, which injected more uncertainty into investors’ minds than they had experienced in a long time. By April, Bitcoin had fallen to just above $76,000. However, the crypto recovered nicely since then, steadily rising until it hit an all-time high of over $126,000 in October. But since then, Bitcoin has steadily declined. And after its recent fall, Bitcoin is now up only about 2.8% for the year.
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Hi there, and welcome back to Fast Companys Plugged In. Last year, I left Twitter gradually, then all at once. Throughout 2024, Elon Musks wildly irresponsible stewardship of his social networkI refuse to call it Xleft me increasingly disengaged. But the role he played in Donald Trumps reelection proved to be my breaking point. As of this week, its been a year since my last tweet. Now, I cant claim to have abandoned Twitter entirely. Im still lurking, though only sporadically. When my reporting for a story leads me thereits certainly one of the principal places people talk about AII go. Add up all my activity, and it amounts to maybe 2% of the time I once spent on the service. (Strangely enough, when I do check in, my feed is flooded with tweets from Theranos founder Elizabeth Holmes, whos still in federal prison but seemingly using the platform as an exercise in reputational repair.) Largely weaning myself off the social network that served as my principal online hangout for more than 15 years has been an unalloyed blessing. Before I stopped tweeting, I felt increasingly embarrassed by my participation in a club led by Musk. The 12 months since then have been his most indefensible to date, from the pointless humanitarian nightmare inflicted by DOGE cuts to the U.S. Agency for International Development (USAID) to Grok going Nazi. Being appalled from a distance has been far preferable to tweeting my way through it. The fact that Im a happy ex-Twitter addict isnt just a moral stance. For all of Musks still-unfulfilled blather about turning Twitter into an everything app, the site is shrinking. Thats true in a literal, daily-active-users sense, where its now at risk of being consistently surpassed by Metas Threads. However, Im thinking more of Twitters cultural relevance. The site that once aspired to be the pulse of the planet is clinging to the residue of what it once was. The tweets still flow, but the spark of life is gone. Thats not a universally held opinion, of course. If theres a case for staying on Twitter, its the one outlined by The Arguments Jerusalem Desmas in a piece titled, well, The case for staying on Twitter. Calling it the most influential public square we have, she maintains that departing the site for an alternative such as Threads, Bluesky, or Mastodon amounts to deplatforming yourself. If Twitter were a public square, her argument might be airtight. But public squares arent private enterprises operated to serve their owners interests. Twitter is. Thats true even before you consider Musks whim-based management, which has gamed the conversation in ways that consistently make it worse. That said, I may have stayed on Twitter as long as I did in part because nothing else out there seemed any closer to being the internets one true forum. Certainly not its most populous rival, Threads: Every time Meta changes its mind about whether it wants to discourage or boost conversations about news and politics, its a reminder that the company is algorithmically shaping the discourse. One of the lessons Ive learned over the past year is that we dont need a single, defining hub of Twitter-style conversation. Why resign yourself to tolerating Musks vision for social networking when you can assemble your own? Instead of choosing between Threads, Bluesky, and Mastodon, Ive been posting to all three simultaneously using Openvibe. Im also having fun with two apps that weave Bluesky and Mastodon posts together with items from RSS feeds and other sources: Flipboards Surf and Iconfactorys Tapestry. And sometimes I use two fine single-service third-party apps: Graysky for Bluesky and Icecubes for Mastodon. My new social network-of-networks is smaller than the one I once had on Twitter, where I peaked at around 95,000 followers. The quality of the conversation is excellent, though, in part because the vast majority of people whose tweets I once cared about are active on the services I use now. And Musk doesnt get to pull any of the levers, though he does pop up as a charactermost recently when Bluesky was awash in glee over Joyce Carol Oates eviscerating him on Twitter. Its to all the Twitter rivals credit that theyre partaking in the open ecosystem reflected in the various apps Im running. (Bluesky and Mastodon are all in, while Threads is still dipping its toe.) Meanwhile, Musk has doubled down on Twitters long-standing policy of preventing people from using the service in any way except via its official apps and website. The services walled-off nature is yet another reason why it feels like its fading away. I stopped tweeting because I couldnt stand having my online identity wed to Musks any longer. Now Im sorry I didnt divorce myself from his mess earlier. Well never get the lovable Twitter of yore back, but Im too busy enjoying my post-Twitter social networking life to be all that wistful. Youve been reading Plugged In, Fast Companys weekly tech newsletter from me, global technology editor Harry McCracken. If a friend or colleague forwarded this edition to youor if you’re reading it on fastcompany.comyou can check out previous issues and sign up to get it yourself every Friday morning. I love hearing from you: Ping me at hmccracken@fastcompany.com with your feedback and ideas for future newsletters. I’m also on Bluesky, Mastodon, and Threads, and you can follow Plugged In on Flipboard. More top tech stories from Fast Company The secret to phone detoxingHint: You’ve got it in the bag, kiddo. 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